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Saturday, March 11, 2017

Back for a Brief Visit

When I last posted, I was 1) having horrible migraines; and 2) in the process of finding a larger house. The first hasn't changed much, but the second is all but accomplished: my dear husband and I close on a "new" home - the 3rd we've tried to buy! - on March 30.

It's a nice little cottage-style home near the University of Houston, in a neighborhood called University Oaks. It's home to many of the school's professors, and I'll actually be living down the street from one of my favorite professors from the Master of Architecture program.

In theory - and according to my November 14, 2016 posting - I have my design ideas all worked out because I've already defined my personal style.

Let me tell you, the crow I'm eating right now tastes horrible.

The problems I'm currently experiencing in figuring out the interior design are many.


The Living Room

The living room is also the foyer, and there are 4 individual points of entry to the 14'-0" x 14'-0" room, located more or less at the room's four corners: the front door, the doorway to the kitchen, the stairs leading to the attic master bedroom, and a door beneath the stairs leading to the main hallway and kitchen. There's also a false fireplace, and a bay window that's large and deep, just not large or deep enough to hold an entire sofa. My beautiful orange sofa will most likely be too large for the living room.

So, do I eventually stick with orange, and just buy another orange sofa (while relegating the current one to the study)? Or do I go for a gray or natural linen sofa? Or a caramel leather sofa? There are so many options it makes my head spin. For now, we plan to try to make the orange sofa work, along with the false fireplace. If it just isn't possible, we'll rip out the fireplace, and maybe buy a new sofa.


The Dining Room

The dining room is open to the kitchen, so the two spaces need to work together, but the kitchen is currently SUPER cottage-y, with white Shaker-style cabinets, white tile countertops (so. much. grout. Shudder), and a white bead-board backsplash. Eventually, we'll have the countertops and backsplash replaced - and maybe reconfigure the sink - but I'm at a complete loss as to how to integrate the decor of the dining room and kitchen, since I want the dining room to feel at least a little special and a little more dressy than the average breakfast nook.

At the first house we put an offer on, I'd planned to wallpaper the dining room in blue grasscloth, have a glossy white Strut Table by BluDot beneath a brass chandelier, and throw a sisal rug on the floor. This was also my plan for the second house we put an offer on. This house, though, with its open dining/kitchen doesn't want grasscloth, it seems. Unless we enclose the kitchen when we change the countertops - which I'd hate to do - I'll have to find a happy medium.

Should I paint the cabinets bottle green? Or navy blue? Or do I plan for my dining room to be "Modern Farmhouse Chic" and just run with the all-white business?

I'm not prepared for finding a happy medium.


The Master Bedroom

The Master Bedroom is currently open to the living room beneath it. The stairs that lead up to the attic bedroom end at an open landing, with a very low wall separating the attic space from the open stairwell. Essentially, the master bedroom is a mostly enclosed loft bedroom. Eventually, this - like the kitchen countertops - will change. We'll build a real wall with an actual door to separate the landing from the Master Bedroom, which I'm definitely looking forward to doing.

We'll also eventually annex part of the 18'-0" x 19'-0" Master Bedroom to the existing (unworkable) closets. There are two closets for the Master Bedroom, each tucked under the eaves, with a rod about 6" long for hanging long items, and another 36" rod for hanging short items. 

One of the closets also contains a pipe and an electrical box. 

Neither of the closets is painted, or useful. 

For now, we'll purchase a couple of rolling clothes racks from Target, and use those for clothing storage until we take in the northern 6'-0" of space for a walk-in closet.

The Master Bedroom is also almost entirely beneath the slope of the roof, with vertical walls giving way to sloping ceiling/walls about 34" above the finished floor. Our enormous gilded and linen upholstered Rococo headboard won't even fit upstairs, so it will be sold in one hell of a garage sale once we've moved.

For the first house we tried to buy, I'd developed the design scheme below:

© Copyright 2017 by Megan Kidwell for CuratedHouston.com

My dear husband had even consented to the pink walls, since the rest of the decor would be more masculine. Everything was perfect! And the second house we tried to buy would have worked well with this scheme.

Our "new" home, however, doesn't seem to me to want this scheme. That, and my husband has made it fairly clear in the past few weeks that he dislikes the navy bedspread we bought when we got married, along with the beautiful lavender linen bedsheets we purchased. And pink just doesn't seem right, to me, when it's on attic walls. I might change my mind on this, but this is an entirely different house, so I think my husband will also change his mind.

We've had more arguments over furniture and wall colors and future laundry rooms in the past month than we've had in our whole relationship up to the beginning of this past month. It's insane.

We're holding off on buying anything for the Master Bedroom, for right now. We eventually want a king bed, so there's no use in buying a queen headboard when we don't intend to stay in a queen bed forever. 

When we move into the house shortly after March 30, we'll be sleeping on a mattress and box springs sans frame and headboard, with our current bedside tables (which we'll also eventually sell) and current bedding, which is a mishmash of old sheets from the pre-marriage days, and the bedding we bought after our wedding. Until we figure out exactly what we're going to do, upstairs, we'll hold off on painting, too.

[Ed. Note: I also hate the navy blue bedspread, but for different reasons: the batting is coming out through the fabric, so our bedspread constantly appears to be covered in dust and/or dog hair.]


The Study

The house has two bedrooms downstairs, in addition to the Master upstairs. I'd planned to put all three of my custom built bookshelves in the study, along with our white twin desks from IKEA, which we bought because I really loved their design (no joke).
Alex Desk by IKEA

Come to find out, my husband just wants one bookshelf in the study, because the large quantity of books on their shelves makes him feel claustrophobic.

I am learning so much about my husband.

I pointed out to him that the study at the "new" house (12'-0" x 13'-0") will be considerably larger than our current one (9'-0" x 9'-0").

Nope. He still only wants one bookshelf.

We can arrange them so there won't be as many books on them, I explained. We can stage them properly, with only a few books, and a few carefully chosen decorative objects from our collection, like the Oaxacan ceramic pot I bought him for Christmas.

In his words, he "strongly protest[s]".

So one bookshelf will be in the study, and one in the guest room, where it will serve as a nightstand for the two twin beds we'll eventually buy for the room, as well as providing a place to store books, and a few decorative pieces.

The third bookshelf... will probably go in the study for now. Maybe, I can stage them with fewer books and he'll change his mind?

He also dislikes the desks we currently have. He suggested we get one (1) bigger desk to share. The problems with this idea are that 1) he likes to have a neat and orderly desk, and I constantly have a small pile of things to file on the desk (tax stuff), along with pens, random bits of paper or images torn from magazines, legal pads (multiple) with lists (multiple, and sometimes overlapping), along with random tchotchkes, like antique butter-pat dishes and a Beanie Baby polar bear of emotional significance; 2) we sometimes need to use the office at the same time, and the type of desk he's envisioning isn't big enough for that.

So far, he's compromised on this one, saying that we can have separate desks, so long as there's only one bookshelf in the office, whereas I developed a layout incorporating both bookshelves and a single desk, along with a sofa or daybed. I think this furniture situation is going to be an audible, to use a football term. For those who don't follow American football, we'll play it by ear.

Eventually, we intend to finish out part of the remaining upstairs attic (about 10'-0" x 10'-0"), and maybe that can become my own little study with as many bookshelves and books as I want. (It would also make a great retreat for those nights when I'm restless and can't sleep, if we include a daybed.) A little insulation, some wood panelling, a skylight, and I'm all set.

Of course, I'd have to figure out how to decorate that room, too. Honestly, I smell a lot of pink in my imaginary study's future.


The Laundry Room

The laundry room at the "new" house is not, actually, in the house: it's attached to the detached garage, which is, in fact, no longer a garage, but an efficiency apartment. (We plan to renovate the kitchenette in the efficiency and rent it out ASAP, allowing us to pay off the mortgage faster and/or speed up the timeline for repairs and alterations to the house). 

When we first saw the house, I told my dear husband that the house was a no-go if we didn't move the laundry room to the house within 18 months of moving in. He agreed, since I originally suggested we build the laundry room in the current unfinished attic space.

I realized, after we'd put in an offer, that it would be impossible to move the laundry room, upstairs, because there was no way to put a door larger than 24" leading into that space, and full-size washers and dryers are wider than 24". I suggested, instead, that we take in about 56 square feet of the MONSTER screened porch to create a Laundry/Mud Room. There's some push-back, but hopefully he'll come around.


Wednesday, January 11, 2017

Parting is Such Sweet Sorrow

I write this post with a heavy heart, because it's the last for CuratedHouston.

I've had some form of chronic illness for almost as long as I can remember; my sister lovingly calls me 'The Shit Magnet' of our family, because if shit's going to happen to one of us, it happens to me. We have a somewhat dark sense of humor in my family (it helps in dealing with the stress of illness!).

Over the past six or seven years, I've fought against chronic migraines (where you have 15 or more per month), as well as several autoimmune problems that appear to be at least partially genetic. During the past month, my migraines have worsened to the point where I can no longer post reliably, and the energy I had for calling on new shops, photographing them, and writing about them is dissipating. To no one's surprise (except mine), the problems I had in an architecture office - too much exposure to computer screens, causing or worsening migraines - haven't lessened during the hours I spent learning HTML coding.

But in all this bad news, and sadness because my dream is dead (for now), there are some good things: one of my Christmas wishes - to have a larger home for my husband and our two dogs - is coming true!

So, adieu to you, and best of luck in your design endeavors!

Monday, December 19, 2016

All I Want for Christmas Is...

It's that time of the year: the time when a large proportion of the world gives and receives gifts in their community, some thoughtful:

Family Tree at Württembergisches Landesmuseum, Stuttgart / Wikimedia Commons

some not so much:

Oh, look. It's a cheese fondue set. via Wikimedia Commons

It's supposed to be a joyful time of year, when family and friends come together to celebrate the holidays, but it often ends up being more stressful than not! So, for this first CuratedHouston Holiday post, we've rounded up a collection of gifts that would ease the stress of the season so we could enjoy it as we should!



1. Handbag Organizer - It's a seemingly insignificant gift that we think could be life-changing. We practically live in our cars, and it's almost impossible to manage the large numbers of coins, pens, emery boards, and lipsticks inevitably buried beneath that layer of Starbucks receipts and dry-cleaning claim tickets. A handbag organizer would help, seeing as that one interior purse pocket always fills up quickly! This leopard print option from Periea is calling our name!






2. Cosmetics Compact - Okay, so we already use at least one of Laura Mercier's brilliant custom compacts to keep our blush and eyeshadow corralled, and it definitely cuts down on countertop and makeup bag clutter! These Laura Mercier compacts are available at Neiman Marcus and Nordstrom, which means you have a perfect excuse to eat at Bazille or Mariposa. Also, we're trying to figure out how to apply this bundling principle to everything in our lives. Ideas gratefully accepted!


3. Charging Hub - With a limited number of outlets in our office, it would be a godsend to have a handy charging station for all of our gadgets: iPhone, iPad, and MacBook Pro. Also, if it could be made of an attractive material that's made of renewable resources, that would be great, thanks. Enter this beauty of a charging hub that would solve all my problems:





4. Desktop Scanner - Organizing all the forms, contracts, and bills that are an inevitable part of business and household management, and what better way to keep track of them than by scanning them straight onto that MacBook. A small one, like this one from Epson, would fit the bill perfectly!

Doesn't It Just Make You Want to Prepare Your Income Taxes?
5. Trunk Cargo Organizer - While buying groceries to make food for a sick relative, I started to daydream about having one of these. It would mean the end of wondering if that container of cubed cantaloupe from Whole Foods will make it home in one piece.

Available in Multiple Configurations here.

6. A Dog Walker - It's difficult to fit in exercise for ourselves, never mind for our pups. A dog walker - and I don't mean a robotic dog walker, but a human - to take the dogs for a trek around the neighborhood when our schedules mean it's just not in the cards.


7. Customized Meal Plans - We're tempted to try a service like platejoy, which creates meal plans for specific tastes, goals, and allergies, and plans your meals so leftover ingredients from Monday night's dinner are used up in Thursday's breakfast. Sure, you still have to do the grocery shopping, but that's what Instacart is for, right?

8. Gorgeous Office Supplies - Paperwork isn't known for pleasing the senses, but that doesn't mean the office essentials you need can't be! We love love love Cynthia Rowley's collaboration with Staples: think moody, floral, and luscious!



9. J. Crew Endless Shirt - Our capsule wardrobes - a few select items that all coordinate - could become a single uniform with about 10 of these wonderful shirts hanging in our closets! All we'd need to finish the uniform: 2 pairs of jeans, 2 pairs of J. Crew's Pixie pants in black and gray, and LOTS of chunky jewelry.




Dear Santa, I Seriously Just Want Ten of These. Please!


10. 1,000 Square Foot Addition (or A Whole New House) - Editor-in-Chief Megan currently shares a 3-BR/1-BA house with her husband and two dogs.

It's 985 SF.

Why she wants another 1,000 square feet of space is pretty obvious: it's a little cramped (the largest bedroom is 9'-0" x 11'-3")! And, of course, more square footage means more spaces that need to be designed! And who wouldn't want that?

What are your 10 most desired Holiday Gifts? And don't worry about being realistic, because WE certainly aren't!


Note: The companies whose products are listed above did not pay to be in this posting. We just really like the products!
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